A little Whiteboard wisdom: you can have everything laid out for you, all the instructions spelled out, even have great instructors showing you the way but, if you are not willing to use all that has been laid out, spelled out, explained and taught to you… Good Luck! I’ve been on both sides of this, still am in some areas. As a coach I show what I know, and what has worked well in the past for others. However, the worker has to do the work, not only that, they have to figure stuff out on their own. I am still trying to do both, the work that I need to do and figure stuff out. Unfortunately, I use the ‘figure stuff out’ excuse to not do some work I need to be doing. Life’s a fight, fight back!